100+ Things To Love About Yourself

Written by Peter Keszegh

Humans are always looking for validation from others and are concerned about what others think of them. This is the reason why we have self-esteem issues. 

In reality, this can be easily cured if we stop seeking validation from others and start loving things about ourselves.

Studies suggest that self-love not only boosts your self-esteem but also helps you grow mentally and physically. 

Sadly, we all love others very passionately but when it comes to ourselves, we become our biggest critics and can't find things to love about ourselves. 

This becomes obvious using a test. Ask yourself to write down 5 things that you love about yourself. And I am sure that most of us won't be able to complete the list. 

I know it's hard to love yourself because we were never taught that. However, this will change today. In this article, I will mention 100+ things to love about yourself to feel happy alone.

List of things to love about yourself

If you are suffering from low confidence, low self-esteem, or self-hate issues, then read this complete list very slowly and take some points to think about each point.

List of things to love about yourself

Although each point is different, you can still find many things from the list that you love about yourself. Also if you want, after reading this list, you can create a personalized list to practice self-love. 

Now let's have a look at 100+ things to love about yourself:

  1. Your mind is a powerful force. It inspires you throughout the day.
  2. Your creativity. You can come up with great and innovative ideas because of your powerful imagination. As they say, imagination knows no bounds!
  3. You are honest.
  4. You always try your best in everything you do. 
  5. You stay true to yourself and your beliefs.
  6. You are kind and compassionate.
  7. You are empathetic towards others.
  8. You are adventurous. 
  9. You are ready to step outside your comfort zone.
  10. You are willing to try new experiences without thinking of the repercussions.
  11. You are helpful and generous.
  12. You are friendly and fun-loving.
  13. You can laugh at yourself.
  14. You are good at making close friendships.
  15. You are good at so many things.
  16. You love learning new things.
  17. You can easily adapt to new situations.
  18. You can find joy in simple things.
  19. You can rejoice in your small achievements.
  20. You have a never-give-up attitude.
  21. You have strong willpower and show resilience. 
  22. You are sensitive towards people’s feelings. 
  23. Your vision is crystal clear.
  24. You can read and write. Not everyone can read or write. There are approximately 750 million illiterate adults. It’s a luxury that will improve your life.
  25. You love your eyes and your nose. 
  26. Your feet are adorable too
  27. You have raised kids who are respectful towards you and your elders. 
  28. You have a good relationship with everyone you know. Everyone loves you. 
  29. You are not selfish. You make sure that no one is hurt by your actions. 
  30. You are very helpful. You go out of your way to help others. You might even sacrifice your things and time to help others.
  31. You are respectful of people. You do not disrespect them even when they make mistakes. You just tell them the mistake. 
  32. You are not offended easily. While most people take offense at very small things, you try to keep things light. 
  33. You have to set boundaries with people. While you are friends with everyone, you have set boundaries that people wouldn't dare to cross. This is one of the most important things that people don't know how to do. 
  34. You have a non-receding hairline. Most people are getting bald these days and would love to have that. 
  35. You have good friends. At an age, finding good friends is the best thing that could happen to someone. 
  36. You know how to play guitar. 
  37. You know how to play piano.
  38. You are good at academics. 
  39. You have good stamina. 
  40. You have a strong immunity system. 
  41. You don't get sick easily. 
  42. You have a forgiving nature. You forgive people easily. 
  43. You can adapt to change which will help you survive in any conditions. 
  44. You have a positive outlook on life
  45. The way you light up a room with your presence
  46. Ability to find joy in the little things
  47. Being a good listener
  48. Loyalty towards loved ones
  49. Appreciation for nature and its beauty
  50. Your fabulous sense of style
  51. How you stand up for yourself and others
  52. The way you accept negative emotions.
  53. How you accept your body and image.
  54. How you nurture your physical health.
  55. How you nurture your mental health.
  56. How you attract amazing things to you.
  57. Your confidence to admit you want big things from your life.
  58. Your commitment to be your true self.
  59. Your ability to see life from a different perspective.
  60. Your choice to work on growing your self-esteem.
  61. Your desire to live a meaningful life in a world full of noise and excess.
  62. Your ability to admit when you are wrong.
  63. Your love and sense of romance.
  64. Your ability to see both sides of the argument.
  65. Your ability to change your perspective.
  66. I’m all in on making my dreams come true no matter how long they take
  67. I healed most of my childhood ish
  68. I’m committed to showing up as my favorite self
  69. I love learning new things
  70. I’m very curious and always questioning why so I can understand better
  71. Justice. Truth and justice are the foundations of your existence. You work hard to achieve your goals fairly, rather than through manipulation, deception, or insidiousness.
  72. Your organs are in good working order. It might not be the first thing you think about when you think about 100 things to love about yourself, but you literally wouldn’t exist without your organs.
  73. Passion. Anyone will notice the powerful passion that gives you strength if you are genuinely interested in something!
  74. Your memory. Your life is the accumulation of your memories. Your memories help you remember the past and make decisions that shape your future.
  75. I fight for what’s important to me
  76. I can hack my way through website design and copy like no one’s business
  77. I love that I’m strong and fit.
  78. Patience.
  79. Individuality. 
  80. Cultivating creativity through painting, writing, or playing music
  81. Learning languages to open doors to new cultures and friendships
  82. Participating in sports or physical activities for strength and mental clarity
  83. Connecting with like-minded individuals through book clubs, art groups, or dance classes
  84. Relieving stress through cooking, baking, meditation, or gardening
  85. Boosting confidence by achieving goals related to your passions
  86. Continuously learning and growing from your experiences
  87. Realism. You always keep two feet on the ground. Your actions and dreams are realistic, which is why you generally carry out your plans.
  88. Tactfulness. You know how to make things work for you, but you’re not sneaky or hypocritical. For me, that’s a really good example of things I like about myself.
  89. You love that people can count on you.
  90. You love that you’re smart and have a quick wit.
  91. You’re grateful for your great DNA/genes!
  92. You love your natural beauty.
  93. Your desire for a better world for your kids.
  94. Your courage to parent the way chose.
  95. The way you play with your children.
  96. The way you can apologize to your child when you make a mistake
  97. Your efficiency.
  98. Your ability to slow down.
  99. The fact that you can say no to situations when needed. 
  100. The way you pick yourself up from tough times and carry on.
  101. You’re generous with your time
  102. You prioritize your happiness. 
  103. You accept your mistakes make amends if needed and even apologize.

Why is self love so important? 

Putting yourself on the priority list is very important if you want to have a positive life. No matter how tough it is, one should always make sure to love oneself unconditionally 

Here is why self-love is important:

1. Builds confidence

One of the main reasons why people suffer from low confidence and low self-esteem issues is that they think poorly of themselves. They also think that the world has the same opinion about it.

Why is self love so important

But once people start acknowledging their skills and start loving themselves unconditionally, they find out that they are good at certain things. This boosts their self-confidence. 

2. Mental and spiritual growth 

If a person does not love himself or herself, they are always doubting themselves and having bad thoughts. 

This stunts them from growing mentally and spiritually because of the negative thoughts in their mind. 

However, once you start loving yourself, you get rid of all those negative thoughts and find yourself in a better mental place.

Self-love also helps to connect with nature and god.

3. Ability to love others better

If there’s a person who can not love himself or herself, it is less likely that they will be able to love others as well. This destroys their relationship with their loved ones many times. 

Hence if you are a self-hating person, make sure that you start loving yourself to love others and have a loving relationship with them. 

4. Ability to live authentically

In this world, living authentically is very tough. It comes naturally to those who don't have to please others. 

This becomes too tough for a person who hates themselves because they think they need validation from others. Hence they live a life just to please others losing all authenticity. 

5. Greater life satisfaction

If there are things that you love about yourself, then you are satisfied in your life.

This is because you do not need others to tell you if you are good or bad. You know yourself what's good for you and what’s bad for you making you live a life of satisfaction. 

6. Increased happiness

Happiness comes in life when you love people, people love you, you are healthy, you have a deep spiritual connection with god, etc.

All of this happens when you start loving yourself which automatically leads to a happier life. 

How to practice self-love?

Now we all know about the things that we should love about ourselves and how they will help us. But the question is how to practice self-love and lead a satisfactory life where people love you and you love people? 

How to practice self-love

Well, practicing self-love is not easy but it is also not impossible. If you follow the process given below regularly, you will find it easier to love certain things about yourself. 

Here is the process of how to love things about yourself:

  1. Stop pleasing people. 
  2. Be grateful. 
  3. Involve yourself in positive self-talk. 
  4. Surround yourself with happy people.
  5. Eat a healthy meal. 
  6. Exercise daily to stay in shape. 
  7. Connect yourself to God. 
  8. Be humble. 
  9. Sleep on time. 
  10. Learn to say no. 
  11. Write things to love about yourself in a journal and keep reminding yourself. 
  12. Avoid thinking poorly of yourself. 
  13. Do regular meditation. 
  14. Start helping others.


Loving yourself is one of the best decisions you could ever take in your life to make sure that you live a healthy and stress-free life.

Unfortunately, most people are very critical of themselves and can't love themselves but seek validation from others. 

If you are among those people, then we have created a list of things that you could love about yourself. If you want, you can cherry-pick some of the things from this list and write in your diary to remind you of the things that you love about yourself. 

You could also keep coming to this blog to understand why should love yourself and not think what others think of us. 

If this article has helped you, then please share this with someone who is down in their life and can take some lessons from this. 

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